have been “prepared” about puberty, is the trauma entirely absent? No, because

the education is lacking in a vital area. Words cannot convey everywhere close
as efficiently as pictures can. You can talk all day to a boy about how members or
to a girl about how breasts come in all sizes and shapes, but it will not remove
the fear that their penis or breasts are unusual. But if they’ve
opportunities to see organs and breasts in all their astonishing assortment, the point
is driven home that their body is just as ordinary and acceptable as anyone
Children are not allowed
to satisfy their perfectly natural fascination when it is safe to do so. Adults
have sex hormones raging through their bodies. Prepubescent kids don’t.
When would be the best time of life to learn about human bodies?
Before children have to
Begin dealing with sexual urges.
However, astoundingly, we
think the most awful thing of all is to permit a kid to see an adult naked.
What disaster!
Instead, we compel children
to wait until they enter puberty. Afterward they not only must deal with their
Fascination driven by a natural and wholesome want to become educated, but also
driven by these brand new, nearly overwhelming sexual urges. They get it all
dumped on them at once and are left alone to cope with it on their own.
Is it any wonder there is
sexual dysfunction in our society? Is it any wonder teen sexual activity and
pregnancy and venereal disease run rampant in our society?
Is this not accurate child
Make no mistake about it,
once kids reach puberty, they will start training http://nudenudist.com/tube/that-comes-from-being-completely-naked/ , one
Manner or another. If parents or another adult authority figure does not help
them do it, they will do it by themselves.
And all of US know how they
will do it.
They will gather
misinformation from friends as ignorant as themselves. They will develop
addictions to pornography. They will experiment with nudity and sex among
themselves, ignorant of the dangers involved. And they’ll do it all with a
ghastly mental stew of sexual arousal, shame, guilt, and rebellion combined into
Oh yes, this is much
better than allowing kids to experience nudity under attentive grownup
supervision before their sexual hormones start to stream.
An adult permitting a kid
to see him or her nude is child abuse? No, no. The law that criminalizes letting
a child see an adult nude is child abuse.
Nudity that is meant to
be shocking or sexual or endangering or lewd through the individual’s motive
and conduct–now that’s child abuse. But legally defining the only
existence of nudity as lewdness or obscenity is an bad, archaic view that
must be stamped out.
Kids are never educated
to accept the aging cycle of human beings. Everyone fears getting old. We think
old bodies are horrible. We fear them. For God’s sake, cover them up! And lo and
behold, examine the youth-worshiping culture we currently have. Coincidence?
Billions of dollars are
spent on cosmetic, clothing, even operation, to try and pretend we are not getting
old. Why? Because we dread it. Why? Because we never see it.
Because we always conceal
our bodies from one another, we never get to see the natural aging life cycle of
human bodies. That which is hidden from us is mysterious and http://nudismphotos.net/posts/a-day-visitor-to-a-nudist-club-near-to-where-i-was-working/ .
If we could just see
human bodies in all the different periods of aging on a regular basis, it’d
be a familiar sight to us, a comfortable sight. Aging would be a natural thing,
not something to fight tooth and nail in anxiety.
Is it not psychological maltreatment
to instruct people to fear the natural life cycles of their own bodies?
Children, like all people,
equate their bodies with themselves. They are their bodies. If we teach
them to be scared and ashamed of their bodies (and we do), they will be ashamed
of themselves. And hence a uncontrolled epidemic of self-loathing thrives in our
Specially our women. The
most beautiful girls on earth still think there’s something wrong with their
Kids are killing
themselves over poor self-image. The girl that purges or starves herself to
death because she can’t accept her body is a target of the self-loathing that
anti-naked approaches help to foster. The gang banger who carries a gun and kills
someone for “dissing” him is actually killing kids over self esteem. “You
disrespect me, you expire.”
And where does this
Unrestrained lack of self esteem come from? The causes are complex, but how can the
lifelong shame we feel over our own bodies not be a contributor?
Our luxury of concealment
nudity from each other may even be killing our kids. Never mind psychological
Mistreatment. This is physical mistreatment of the most awful kind. All because we don’t want to
see a naked human body.
That is where the authentic
shame lies, not in our bodies!
Many kids never get to
feel absolutely comfortable with the opposite sex and never get an acceptable
education on human bodies to satisfy their interest. Most kids will not

Endure this situation forever. If the adult community will not satisfy their need